Changing the Amount of Time You Spend With Your Children

Changing the Amount of Time You Spend With Your Children

               This is commonly the time of year where many parents reconsider where their children live the majority of the time, or reconsider how much time the children live with each parent.  This may be because one parent has the children with them more of the time during the summer, or because the school year is just around the corner, but regardless of the reason, this is a hot topic right about now.

               If the parents are in agreement on any changes to their Parenting Plan, making these changes can be pretty simple.  It is important to formally make these changes in a new Parenting Plan.  Just informally adopting changes can lead to conflict later, and entering a new Parenting Plan will ensure that both parents’ rights are protected.  I have seen informal changes to visitation schedules go very wrong over time.  When these agreements break down, the court can be left with no real idea of who is telling the truth about the informal agreement.

               If one parent is looking to modify the Parenting Plan, legal guidance is essential.  The law in Washington is very detailed about when a change is possible and under what circumstances these changes are appropriate.  In many cases, some prior planning can significantly improve your chances of successfully modifying the Parenting Plan.  If an emergency exists and the safety of a child is at stake, there are things that can be done to get immediate relief from the court. 

Regardless of your situation, meeting with an experienced family law attorney will help you better understand your options.  Putting off addressing your concerns will not generally improve your position, and can make obtaining the relief you want more difficult.